Friday, October 31, 2008

HALLOWEEN...AND A CHANGE IN PERSPECTIVE

I have "my" chair in the family room...don't you???...and it has been located in a convenient spot for watching television, working on my laptop, viewing my garden and birdfeeder out the big window, and answering the phone. It has been in the same spot since we moved into this house six years ago.

The down side of that convenient location was its proximity to the back door. Not so horrible in summer, but a very chilly place to be when the husband and the dog make their way in and out for "deck duty" during the cold winter months. I've put up with that inconvenience for several winters and yesterday, I decided it was time to take some affirmative action toward being comfortable during the coming months and moved that chair to the opposite side of the room!

Sounds easy enough, but moving your "pod" across the room also means relocating the favorite reading lamp, the phone wires and electrical cord for the base unit, my chairside table, laptop and all the stuff I keep near it...earphones, charger, electrical unit for my mouse. Then there is the necessary sweeping and cleaning that is necessary any time furniture is moved. And no table gets moved without all the stuff that accumulates on it having to be cleared and relocated.

But it is done now and I am happy. I have a good chance of being warmer this winter and I also have the bonus benefit of seeing my "world" from a different perspective. I can't see the birdfeeder, but I can now see the birds that come onto the deck, into the back yard, and fly over the little lake behind us. I can see the sun come up in the morning and more easily assess the changing weather.

The new location makes all the famliar things I do seem new and different somehow...kinda like staying in a hotel makes morning coffee seem precious and luxurious!

And then, I got an early morning e-mail from my younger daughter telling me she was speaking in Orlando at 8:30 and it was being live-streamed if I wanted to watch it.

This is my daughter, Sarah and her avitar...her business alter-ego, Intellagirl. I have two daughters. Our older daughter, Lara, is a nurse and having been a nurse myself, I have a good understanding of what she does for a living. But Sarah's job...or jobs...are a little more obscure. I know she lectures all over the country and several foreign countries about "emerging media" and "virtual education" and "Web 2.0" among other things. But when her dad and I are asked what she does, we mainly just answer that "she works in computers and education"!

It was fun to actually see her "work" as she lectured several hundred people in Florida as I sat here in Indianapolis. I was proud, as a Mom, to see how respected she was by the people in the audience and the confidence with which she answered questions from fellow educators both in the room and from people in other countries who were watching over the internet and joining in. I even got a little "shout out" near the end as she addressed a participant located in Europe and she said, "I think my Mom is watching this morning, too!" AWWW!

I made sure my husband watched it when he came home and the look of pride was evident when he declared at the end that he guessed all that money we spent on her education had been worth it!

It is nice, as a parent, to get that new perspective on a child...always your "little girl" but also that independent adult that you always hoped that she would become!

And...now to Halloween! I've found some more great pictures I wanted to share.

ALIEN OR ILL-FITTING SWEATER?

DARE TO DREAM!

TRICK OR TREAT!

ALWAYS WANTED TO SEE HOW THE OTHER HALF LIVES!

THOSE ARE DOLL ARMS AND LEGS
BUT
THIS IS JUST WRONG!!!

FISHY DISGUISE!

PUMPKINS DON'T HAVE ALL THE FUN!

YOU HAVE TO GO HERE AND SEE THIS GREAT HALLOWEEN CODE LEFT ON SIDEWALKS OUTSIDE HOMES TO LET OTHER TRICK-OR-TREATERS KNOW WHAT TO EXPECT! SO FUNNY!

Tuesday, October 28, 2008

JUST ANOTHER WEEK IN PARADISE

HOW YOU DOIN'?

I don't know if it's the cooler weather, the shorter days and less sunshine, or the fact that I have the house cool and sit in front of the computer with my little electric heater warming my feet, but I can not seem to stay awake!



I have even taken to adding an extra scoop of coffee to my morning brew in hopes of injecting a little more stimulus into my morning, but it just isn't working! Although, I have to say, I like the taste of the coffee a little more! I had been trying to cut back on the scoops after looking at the price of my last canister of coffee! I certainly make sure that I drink every drop that I brew and not toss any away after an hour or two!

But, seriously! I saw these the other day and I think I may have to invest in some. I'm afraid my snoring might give me away though! And I'm not quite sure how you attach them to your eyelids! Do they rub on or are they sticky?

We had the triplet grandkids complete with accompanying parents here for dinner on Sunday and they were a sight! They are seven and have lost so many teeth that they look like three jack-o-lanterns lined up when they smile.

I tried to get pictures, but they are so un-cooperative at that age. Their fingers are stuck in there or they are making sappy faces or wiggling around. I finally realized I was not going to get a decent shot and lay my camera down to go to do something else.

A few minutes later, I was in the kitchen with my back turned when I saw a flash go off behind me and a little giggling imp informing me that she had just taken a picture of my butt!!!

That is high treason!!! And her Christmas present just may reflect her scandalous behavior! lol!

Grandpa should have warned her that pictures taken from the rear are regarded with scorn by this side of the family. He tried it once when my Mom and Dad were celebrating their 50th wedding anniversary and everyone was taking group pictures of the relatives in attendance. One of the popular poses was of the five daughters...me and my four sisters...all together. There were lots of cameras snapping us from the front, when the husband sneaks around behind us and takes a series of shots! He was lucky that there were lots of witnesses and he survived the wrath of the Aldridge girls!

Do you Twitter?

My daughter, Sarah, kept after me until I finally signed up last week and I must say that I have had fun with it. I've run into a few of my blogger friends on there...so if you Twitter...leave me a note.

Are the holidays sneaking up on you? Thanksgiving is so close! And I'm trying to get my Christmas shopping started. I try to do internet shopping and stay out of the stores! Hate crowds. I sat two of the grandkids down with a toy catalogue while they were here and gave each of them a marker in different colors to get their ideas of what would be cool! They marked everything! I guess I should have seen that coming!

The husband said he would love to have a small tape recorder. I explained to him that they are no longer "tape" recorders, but digital voice recorders! Technology certainly passes us by when we aren't looking! I think the last time he wanted to record something was back in college and it was probably reel to reel!

He thinks he has a book in him and that he thinks faster than he can write, so he wants to record his thoughts instead. I'm not quite sure who is going to transcribe his opus, but if it makes him happy and keeps him busy, I think Santa will have to go along with his request. Husbands who are not occupied with weightier matters, tend to want to give advice on how to run sweepers or where to put the egg cartons in the fridge!

I have a theory as to why so many men die suddenly after retirement! I think the women in their lives have a well-kept secret that they pass on to each other on how to "ahem" get them out of the house again! Just sayin!

Saturday, October 25, 2008

HALLOWEEN FUNNIES

OOPS!!

JOHN MCCAIN PUMPKIN

OBAMA PUMPKIN

SCARED

A CLASSY PAIR!

DUDE!
funny halloween Pictures, Images and Photos

NOW, THAT SCARES ME!
ay wey Pictures, Images and Photos


AN OLD HALLOWEEN POSTCARD

OR TWO

OR THREE!

POOR LIL KID!

HOW CUTE!

A REMINDER TO NOT LET THE KIDS
EAT TOO MUCH CANDY!

EEK!

THE GRANDKIDS ARE SO EXCITED ABOUT HALLOWEEN!
THEY ALL HAVE THEIR COSTUMES PICKED OUT
AND CAN'T WAIT TO GO TRICK-OR-TREATING!

vote Pictures, Images and Photos
ON ANOTHER NOTE...WE WENT OUT SATURDAY AND VOTED EARLY!
THE NUMBER OF PEOPLE VOTING THIS YEAR IS EXPECTED TO BE WAY UP FROM YEARS PAST AND IT WILL EASE THE STRAIN ON POLLING STATIONS IF A LOT OF US VOTE PRIOR TO NOVEMBER 4!
SO, IF YOU HAVE A CHANCE, GO OUT AND CAST YOUR BALLOT!
IT FEELS SO GOOD!

Wednesday, October 22, 2008

IN THE KITCHEN!

Fall is the perfect time to return to the kitchen! The first 60 degree day makes me want to throw something in the oven...this week it was meatloaf, a small cobbler made from blackberries grown in our neighbor's back yard, and a macaroni and cheese casserole.
The house always smells so good and feels so warm and cozy when something is in the oven! We have an area in our house back by the laundry room and entrance from the garage where all the smells from the kitchen at the other end of the house go to congregate. Weird! But a great welcome for my husband when he comes home after a long day of work!

I've brought out all my spicy smelling candles and have them scattered all over the house. And pumpkin has made a return! Suddenly, I want it in everything! It's not just the flavor of pumpkin or the great way it smells with the addition of cinnamon, nutmeg, and cloves, but even the color!

I have a couple of tops that are pumpkin colored that I wear this time of year and it always makes me feel good to bring them out and start wearing them.

But, back to the kitchen! I have several pumpkin recipes that I enjoy this time of year, including some I have already mentioned in an earlier post...pumpkin oatmeal and muffins. I also ran across a pumpkin custard recipe that I did a couple of times last fall that I will make this weekend. I love having them in the fridge waiting for dessert!

And hot drinks are always welcoming in the fall. I bring out my spicy teas like Constant Comment and the apple spice varieties and have them in the afternoon. And I'll be making my Hot Pumpkin Cocoa again. I created it last fall when I had a little pumpkin left after making another recipe and didn't want to waste it. I stirred a couple of tablespoons of pureed pumpkin into milk, added a little vanilla, Equal, and pumpkin pie spice, and warmed it in the microwave. It was one of my favorite drinks most of the winter!

And for anyone who enjoys the pumpkin coffees that are popular in the drive-ups now, this is a recipe for making one at home. Use low-fat milk and it fits into a weight loss plan with two thumbs up!

PUMPKIN COFFEE
serves 1
1 tablespoon pureed pumpkin, canned is fine
1 tsp vanilla
1/4 tsp cinnamon or pumpkin pie spice
Sweetener of choice, to taste
1 cup milk
1/2 cup strong coffee
Combine all ingredients and warm before serving.

Just for fun, Bread and Honey has the weirdest blog entry featuring frozen broccoli! Gotta go see it!

Tuesday, October 21, 2008

A CAREER MILESTONE!

When NASCAR heads to Atlanta Motor Speedway next weekend, my fella, Michael Waltrip, will be marking a career milestone.


Michael Waltrip will be making his 1,000th NASCAR start in that race.

He will be making his 721st Cup start and has 271 Nationwide and eight Truck series starts.

I haven't been able to find the stats, but Steve Byrnes from Speed said on "This Week in NASCAR" last night that there was only one driver who has made more career starts and that is Richard Petty! Wow!

Michael's take on this?

"It just means one thing! I'm getting old!"

Congratulations to the driver that made me love NASCAR!


Waltrip reminisces through 25 years of race highlights

By Dave Rodman, NASCAR.COM
October 22, 2008
02:23 PM EDT

After Michael Waltrip won the 1983 Goody's Dash Series championship, he honestly thought he'd next set the NASCAR world on its ear.

"You go back to that point," Waltrip said through a smile in the lounge of his No. 55 hauler at Martinsville Speedway. "And if you had told me then that I wasn't going to be the next Richard Petty, I would've told you that you were crazy. But it's been a long, steady march and I've appreciated every step of the way."

Twenty-five years later, Petty's record is still the mark for stock-car excellence. But when Waltrip takes the green flag Sunday at Atlanta for his 1,000th start in NASCAR's national touring series, he'll be second only to Petty in total career starts.

"The 1,000 starts defines my attitude, which has been, for a long, long time, that I'm all-in," Waltrip said. "I love racing. This is what I do -- whether it's TV commercials or TV shows or the Truck broadcasts. Whatever it is, it's all about the sport and trying to deliver it to the masses, whether it's on TV or the way I race my car.

"I want people to love my sport as much as I do. So every day, when I wake up I hope that I can make somebody like my sport as much as I do."

Asked to narrow his career down to its five most significant events, Waltrip couldn't do it; and with so many, that's probably not surprising, as he cited one early example.

"I think about Pocono in [June] 1988, when I finished second," Waltrip said. "We had enough gas to make it, Ricky Rudd had enough gas to make it and nobody else did. But it was a day where we ran very competitively and used gas mileage to get a second-place finish. That was the first real success I'd had at the Cup level.

"And then you fast forward to gaining the confidence and the respect of NAPA and Aaron's and Best Western and Toyota -- all the sponsors that have enabled me to own a team is special to me. We haven't had any spectacular moments that are worth dwelling on, on track, but we've survived and we've begun to compete up front and had a chance to win a couple races.

"[David] Reutimann leading the most laps at Richmond, you can see progress and that was pretty cool."

When he really mulled over 1,000 starts, Waltrip managed to get them into five significant groups, after he summed up his career.

"This has just been me, saying 'I love this, this is what I want to do, and I want to do it as much as I can,' " Waltrip said. "The on-track stuff is what gets us up in the morning, but to me, having the privilege of having SPEED TV wanting to have me on TV telling people about it is just another part or piece of the story.

"In the Nationwide Series, over my career I've got some pretty good numbers. I think I won 11 races, but somehow I managed to lose 11 and I might have finished second more than anybody. I used to finish second all the time, but I've been real fortunate over there and had success -- and I'll put those numbers up against a lot of peoples'.

"Throughout my [Cup] career I just never was able to line up the stars to have multi-win seasons and accomplish a lot that I'd hoped I would in the Cup Series, but God blessed me with two Daytona 500 trophies and I'll take those, any day.

"They can have a bunch of North Wilkesboro or Rockingham trophies, for all I care and I'll just take my two Daytona 500 trophies and be happy about it."

Darlington Raceway, 1986 Southern 500
"Maybe one of my first memorable moments was the Southern 500 in 1986. If you look at the results, I think it'll say I finished 13th, but I blew up with seven or eight laps to go. It was my rookie season and Darlington was one of the toughest tracks and it was the day that I finally felt like I got it, like, 'yeah, I can run with these guys.' And that wasn't just at Darlington -- it was that I could compete in Cup racing in general. But the Southern 500 made it even more cool, and Darlington was just hard.

"Darlington's a memory. I ran there in 1985, we made the race and I was competitive. But I thought that they were kidding. I made a couple laps and came back in and said 'somebody's playing a joke on us, right? You're not supposed to actually going around this place like that, are you?' But in 1986 we were running the top 10 and just felt great. That should have made me realize how tough NASCAR Cup racing was, because we raced all day and didn't knock the wall down and were running in the top 10 with seven or eight laps to go and the motor broke. So that day was big for me.

"In 1991 was the race at Darlington in the spring where we led the most laps and had, like, a 30-second pit stop on our last stop and didn't win. We finished third. I don't really remember that very much [laughing] because I was so disappointed."

Lowe's Motor Speedway
"Another big one was in 1990 when I ran third in the World 600, behind Rusty [Wallace] and Bill [Elliott] -- and it was Rusty, Bill and me, right there," Waltrip said, forgetting that he actually finished fourth, behind Mark Martin. "That was the first time in Cup that I was racing to win a race. I never will forget that, because they crossed the finish line, and there the winner was, and I was right there with 'em.

"That was obviously quite an accomplishment. I felt like I was learning or I wouldn't have been in that position, but I felt like that was another day where I said, 'I could win one of these darned things. I almost just won one of them.'

"Winning the all-star race in 1996 for the Wood Brothers was pretty cool. I just wanted to win for them, because it was their family business and they hired me and they said 'we think you can go win' and I wanted to win for them. To be able to accomplish that was a special feeling.

"We came to the all-star race and the 600 in the top 10 in the points, we won the all-star race and were sixth in the 600 and we said 'we've made a good decision; we are capable of winning.' And we never did win again, but it made me feel real happy that I was able to accomplish that for them."

The Daytona 500
"The two Daytona 500 wins were big. The first one [2001, when car owner Dale Earnhardt was killed on the final lap, within a half-mile of the finish line while Waltrip and Dale Earnhardt Jr. finished first and second] was a mess and I don't have much to say about that.

"But then to be able to go back -- in '02 I think I could have won, or should have won -- and still finished in the top five. And in 2003 to go back and lead the most laps and win a race at Daytona and to be able to celebrate both my wins on that day was special."

First Busch Series victory, Dover 1988
"In [1988] it was pretty cool to win at Dover in my [fourth] start in the [Busch] Series in [brother] Darrell's car, because I had never driven for Darrell," Waltrip said, citing the wrong year, 1989 and the wrong start, his third, in the process. "I'd always been off doing my own thing, trying to get established, and Darrell got hurt at Bristol, so I drove the car at Darlington and finished third, and he said 'OK, you can run it again next week, because you did so good. And I won. That was big to be able to win in that series."

The 2005 season with crew chief Tony Eury Jr.
"The last thing that was sort of a highlight of my career was the '05 season with Tony Jr. I remember telling [wife] Buffy one day when I went to work, and they said 'OK, Dale Jr.'s got your team and now you go this.' And I told Buffy, 'either the greatest thing in the world happened to me or the worst thing. I don't know which -- but I can't wait to find out.'

"So we go to Daytona and win our 150 [qualifying race] and had an awesome car in the 500 and broke. We went to Phoenix and raced with Kurt Busch to the very end and almost won, so just relating to Tony Jr. and having him pat me on the back and say 'this is fun -- I appreciate you being here.'

"We got the pole at Pocono and we never did win together, but we came close a few times prior to going to the shop one day and they said 'that was fun, but we're switching you back now [laughing].' So I said 'I think I'm going to go somewhere else to work.'

"Tony Jr. is a great racer and he understands racing as well as anyone that I've ever had the pleasure of working with."



Friends' first thoughts with "Waltrip" word association

By Dave Rodman, NASCAR.COM
October 22, 2008
02:25 PM EDT

In more than 25 years in NASCAR racing, Michael Waltrip has created a variety of impressions on millions of people; from the racetrack to Victory Lane, the infield care center to the TV set and the boardroom to the broadcast booth.

When 10 people closely familiar with Waltrip were asked what the first word out of their mouths would be when they heard his name, here's what they said:

Brett Bodine, NASCAR Director of Cost Research: "Uplifting"
No matter what or no matter how bad a day, he'll always find you and put a smile on your face. I've had more fun with him. I think Michael always took the sport for what it was, for Michael. Let's face it, you never thought he took it a whole lot serious and I don't think he ever thought he was going to make a living at doing this, for this long in particular. But he's always had a good time doing this. These last couple years, the fun meter's going down for him as an owner, and I warned him about that. But besides Phil Parsons, Michael Waltrip is probably the driver in this garage area that I've had the most fun with, by far.

Tony Eury Jr., Sprint Cup Crew Chief: "Confidence"
I mean, I think Michael Waltrip is probably the most confident person I've ever seen to drive a racecar. What was really intriguing when me and the guys got to be with him was just his enthusiasm and his confidence at every race. He could walk into any racetrack and think that he could win that race and that was a pleasure to be around. He taught me to think outside the box. Good was never good enough for Michael, he always wanted us to keep trying new things, trying to be better. We weren't able to win that season [2005], but I wouldn't trade the time I spent with him for the world. He was really excited just to be around new people, so that's probably the biggest thing I remember about Michael.

Dale Jarrett, ESPN Racing Analyst: "Entertaining"
It's two separate things with Michael, I believe. He's obviously proven to friends, colleagues and the fans he can be very entertaining on stage, the TV or as a commentator. He can literally keep your attention for quite a while because you're sitting there waiting to see what he's going to say next. But unfortunately for Michael, probably too many people look at that and not that he got in this position by being a good race driver. I think Michael's done more with less than a lot of people give him credit for. He obviously knows how to win. He's an excellent race driver and I think we sometimes forget just how good of a competitor and how good a driver he's been over the years, competing lots of times in less-than-adequate equipment.

Matt Kenseth, Sprint Cup Driver: "Goofy"
Michael's someone that has a good time, always laughing and joking around in all his interviews and stuff. That's the first thing I think of. I mean, you've got to take it serious, but you've got to have fun at the same time. He's been an amazing spokesperson for all the sponsors that he's had and he's kept them happy for a long time, which is a big reason for his success and what enabled him to become a car owner. So he's accomplished a lot of stuff. To be able to be here and to run that many races is pretty amazing.

Phil Parsons, SPEED Racing Analyst: "Friend"
People say 'well, he's only won four Cup races.' They have no idea how difficult it is to win four Cup races. I won one and I know how fortunate I feel about that, because I know how hard it was to try to win. He won two Daytona 500s. He's run well. He could have won a lot of races. He's won a lot of [Busch] races. He's one of the best promoters the sport's ever had. I don't mean self-promoter, either; although he's very good at that, and not in a negative connotation. He's a sponsor's dream because he makes sure they get what they're paying for. And he's very good at what he does with us in the broadcast booth. We have a great time and our broadcast is better when he's there.

Andy Petree, ESPN Racing Analyst: "Entertaining"
I think the perception is the reality when it comes to Michael Waltrip. He is very entertaining. But he has been around racing a long time, and the fact he's been around for a long time says that he has a certain amount of talent, because there's somebody always wanting to put him in a car or a sponsor hiring him to drive. So he's had longevity and he's still very competitive when his car's right. We saw this just a few weeks ago, where he was very competitive.

Richard Petty, NASCAR Team Owner: "Big deal"
All these football and baseball players played Little League ball, but they don't say nothing about it when they look at their major-league scores. Don't even bring [Nationwide and Trucks] in as far as I'm concerned. That's [1,000] just 'cause he's been here a long time. Like Kyle Busch [winning 20 races]. He's won eight major-league races. Not throwing off on those other guys, but they're going backwards. They've come through that stage. You don't see an [NFL] quarterback going back to college. Michael lived with me for a year, and you knew when he was in the house because you could open the door and follow him all the way to the bedroom. Here's a shoe and there's a sock and then a coat. That's what I remember more than anything else.

Morgan Shepherd, Nationwide Series Driver/Owner: "Craziness"
He never runs out of words, never gets caught without something to say. Every now and then, the fact that he's a serious racer kinda gets lost a little bit in all the joking around he's doing. But making 1,000 starts? Man, that's amazing.

Rusty Wallace, ESPN Racing Analyst: "Entertainer"
When I think of Michael, I mostly think of how much he likes to have fun and likes to laugh. Whether it's in the drivers' meeting, back in the garage or away from the racetrack with a few other people, he's just a funny guy. It's hard to look at Michael and not smile. Michael does a bunch of TV commercials -- more than anyone -- and they're mostly based on laughter or comedy routines. He's a two-time Daytona 500 champion and I wish I could say that. Everybody knows his overall performance on the racetrack hasn't been what he's wanted, but Michael has shined at times, though he's struggled with consistency. If I could give him a Christmas wish, it would be for him to find that consistency, because he's running out of time.

Eddie Wood, NASCAR Team Owner: "Funny"
He's a lot of fun. I remember at either Rockingham or Atlanta, going back to 1996, 1997 or somewhere around there, where he had 300 or 400 Cup starts. But that's a lot of starts. Winning The Winston [in 1996] with Michael was a big deal for us, too. It was our biggest payday to that point, too -- and it was his first win in a Cup car. It was neat he was the last one to get in out of the [Winston] Open, and the car wasn't very good at first, but we kept making it better and Michael did a good job. But he can get it done behind the wheel. That's not even a question in my book.






A SIGN OF THE TIMES


Our older daughter, Nurse Lara, had a yard sale a few weeks ago and we showed up to lend moral support about mid-day. My husband has a little of the huckster born in him and loves pushing merchandise! And it was just far enough in the day for our daughter to approve his "help".

Her husband is a fisherman, as well, and between the two guys, there were several items for sale that would appeal to the sportsman in the line of shoppers. It wasn't long before Huckster Harold was giving out offers of "buy two and I'll throw in a third for free!" and "Buy this and I'll give you that!". So when a fella from the neighborhood showed up...all 6'5" of him with his long beard wrapped up in a forward facing ponytail...and began looking over the poles and reels, lanterns, and such that remained, it was getting near clearance sale time!

Pretty soon, he was up at the checkout table inquiring if he might come back Monday to pay for about $35 worth of stuff since he hadn't cashed his paycheck yet. He wanted to leave his purchases in their garage until he came back with the cash and even offered her his address...just around the corner... and phone number.

By this time, the daughter just wanted to close shop and get the kids off to the pumpkin patch, so she agreed and the deal was done! But we had to laugh and celebrate the fact that she had just offered "Lay-Away" at her yard sale!!!

Remember Lay-Away???

Back in the 70's when my girls were little, it was a very popular way of buying Christmas presents when money was short. Moms would go in to places like K-Mart, Zayres, and Value City early in the shopping season...about six weeks out...and be able to grab what they wanted while the selection was still good. And instead of whipping out a credit card...not so prevalent in those days...the Mom would put down a portion of the purchase price...an investment large enough to keep her coming back...about 10 to 25%, as I recall...and then would promise to come back each week and pay another installment until the last payment was made and the merchandise went home to be wrapped and put under the tree.

The beauty of the whole thing was that there was no debt incurred, no interest to be paid. The stores weren't out anything because the merchandise would go back on the shelf if the weekly payment wasn't made and the parent didn't go overboard with purchases since the balance still had to be paid before the holiday. I remember the Lay-Away counter being very busy in the weeks leading up to Christmas.

And then the easy credit era hit, credit cards for everyone!, and the Lay-Away desk seemed to disappear.

But this year, with credit tightening, it seems to be making a comeback! I've seen K-Mart advertising their Lay-Away plan on television recently!

Can "90 days same as cash" be far behind?

Sunday, October 19, 2008

WARRIOR

We've seen this video a couple of times recently when we went to see movies at the local theatre and were impressed by it. Of course, it never hurts that it has a NASCAR star in it!

SUNDAY FUNNIES!


GRANDMA LOVES TO KNIT
BUT I'M REALLY NOT
GUILTY OF THIS!
I SWEAR!

TO FOLLOW UP ON MY
MUSINGS
ON LOVING BOOKS!
HOW YA DOING, GOVERNOR???

I PROBABLY SHOULD HAVE
SAVED THIS ONE FOR
VALENTINES DAY!

PUPPY???
WHAT PUPPY???
I HAVEN'T SEEN ANY PUPPY!!!

DARN!
GRANDPA JUST GOT HIS
QUARTELY REPORT!

DO YOU THINK HATS
WILL EVER COME BACK?
WELL, WHEN YOU CAN'T AFFORD GROCERIES
AND HAVE NO MONEY FOR GAS,
YOU CAN MAKE THE BEST OF IT!

ONE CAN ALWAYS DRESS WELL
NO MATTER THE INCOME, NO???

THESE ARE REALLY BEING SOLD
ON THE INTERTUBES!
LOVE IT!

INTERNET PIZZA DELIVERY!
WHO SAID THE CUBANS HAVEN'T
DONE WELL UNDER CASTRO?

Saturday, October 18, 2008

SATURDAY MUSINGS

Books are the quietest and most constant of friends; they are the most accessible and wisest of counselors, and the most patient of teachers. ~Charles W. Eliot
Coffe Books Pictures, Images and Photos
How much do I love finding books at yard sales?

This morning, I hit one that had a table full of books for 25 cents each. So now I own:

The Edina Ronay Knitwear Collection...full of patterns for great looking Fair Isles...35 of them to be exact!

Wanted: A Cook by Alan Dale...written in 1904, the year my father was born.

Quite Honestly by John Mortimer...the author of the Rumpole of the Bailey series.

Jean Dalrymple's Pinafore Farm Cookbook...Jean was an actress, writer, manager, and producer on Broadway and helped New York Mayor Fiorello La Guardia found the first great cultural center in the US...the New York Center of Music and Drama. Pinafore Farm was her Connecticut residence where she was known for her entertaining. I love reading cookbooks that are filled with great stories, as well.

One More Time and Older But Wilder by Effie Leland Wilder...humorous and heartwarming stories from Fair Acre Retirement Home. My sister gave me two books from this series several years ago and they were so much fun!

I also found books for the grandkids and my husband came home with some free fishing magazines.

My daughter had a yard sale a couple of weeks ago and had trouble even giving books away! Unbelievable!

I can't imagine being uninterested in books. Even in a home where there was very little cash, my mom and dad always saw that we had books to read. I love books, my girls love them, and my grandkids love them.

We're having a relatively cool day here in Indianapolis...feeling and looking more like fall. And we are anxiously awaiting the change in time which will be happening soon. It is really dark here until well into the morning...time for a little more daylight!

Sarah from Fancypance had this video about depression era cooking on her blog the other day and I really enjoyed it, so I am passing it on to you. There are more in the series if you like it.


Tuesday, October 14, 2008

DAME AGATHA...

My husband and I just finished watching "Boston Legal" from last night. It is his favorite show on television...even more than SciFi!

About half way through the storyline, we looked at each other and said, "Witness for the Prosecution"!!!
Witness For The Prosecution Pictures, Images and Photos
I don't know how many mysteries I've watched over the years that were based on or inspired by the genius that was Agatha Christie!

I read one of her books back in my early twenties and fell in love with her writing. I scrambled after that to find every one I could find at the public library...I had no idea how many there were...and, of course, finding books at the library wasn't as easy back then as it is now.

I saw every one of her movies as they came out...Murder on the Orient Express, Murder on the Nile. Ten Little Indians. I caught all the old movies with Dame Margaret Rutherford as Jane Marple.

When I had the opportunity to buy her entire collection in a book-of-the-month club from Bantam Books, I jumped at it. I have the entire collection of the lovely navy blue bound novels with the name of the book imprinted in gold on a book shelf in my bedroom. I read each one as they arrived and still go and grab a favorite and reread it every once in awhile.

The books she wrote under the pseudonym, Mary Westmacott, are a part of the collection, as are her plays and short stories, and, finally, her autobiography. I've also added several books about her and critiques of the novels.

I was asked once who I would like to trade places with if I were given the opportunity, and I would have to put Agatha high on that list. The period of her life when Archie Christie was leaving her for another woman was terribly sad, but her life with second husband, Max Mallowan, the archaeologist, seemed to make up for it. She was brilliant when it came to crime writing...like she was born with the stories in her and she only had to sit down and produce them at will.

Recently, there were some long lost audio tapes of her talking that were discovered in some old boxes and they were posted on an English website for a short time, but by the time I heard about them, they had been taken down. Darn!

Well...back to television. Doubt if "Two and a Half Men" will inspire me.

Saturday, October 11, 2008

SUNDAY FUNNIES!

NOT A "HARE" OUT OF PLACE
I HAVE TO STOP GOING TO THAT BUFFET AFTER CHURCH ON SUNDAYS!
WHERE ARE THOSE PIC-A-NIC BASKETS???
I JUST NEED A LITTLE CAT NAP!
SURE HOPE THAT CORN MAZE IS AS GOOD AS LAST YEAR!
HURRY AND EAT! THAT WHEELBARROW OF MONKEYS
WILL BE HERE SOON!
BETTER THAN A TIGER IN YOUR TANK!
WE FLIPPED A COIN AND EATING OUT WON
OVER BUYING GAS THIS WEEK!
"SWEATIN' TO THE OLDIES" IS SO EXHAUSTING!!!
SO WHO GREASED MY BRANCH???
IT SURE GETS DEEP DURING ELECTION YEARS!

HAVE A GREAT SUNDAY!

Friday, October 10, 2008

I PROMISE...I REALLY DO!

I promise...promise...promise that this will be my last post on this subject...at least for this week! But I just had a couple more things to say about the economic mess and here goes.

I think a lot of us see the financial problem as much too large for anything we can do to have any impact...or we take the view that it is so difficult to understand that we'll just leave it to the experts and let what happens go ahead and happen!

NOT TRUE!!!

Every show from Dr. Phil to Oprah to the morning shows has focused on this issue in the past couple of weeks in order to answer some of the questions the citizens have. They have ran the gamut of just about every financial expert available on their shows and there is no excuse at this time not to have some idea of what we, as citizens, need to do.

From what I've been able to gather, the first thing is not to panic. I have to admit, by last evening when I heard the word "crash" a couple of times and...I swear...the little girl who gave the financial report on my favorite news channel had been crying before she appeared on camera!!!...I felt I couldn't breathe! I called my husband in and told him we were going to go and withdraw whatever was left in our retirement account out before it was all gone!

After a good night's sleep and thinking on it for awhile, we decided to call our investment company this morning and just see how bad it was and if there was anything we could do to help our situation. And I am so happy we did.

Here's what I found out: Harold and I are not investment experts. We just kinda try to understand the basics of what our guy tells us and then we promptly go home and find out that most of the information has gone over our heads, but we did what we had been told we should do when we were younger. We steadily put money into the account and had it invested in a variety of stocks, bonds, and funds...some pretty "safe" and others more "risky"...and over time they kinda balanced each other out and we had a steady growth even during some slow times.

Back in May, we got in and saw our guy because it hit us that at 59 our official retirement is just around the corner and we wanted to see if we were ready...it is really hard to know! At that time, he told us that we should reallocate our money and put it into a fund that was far less risky. We said that sounded okay with us...whatever you say...we just want to go see that movie this afternoon!...signed the papers and left!

We had no idea in May what a good decision that would turn out to be! Risk takes on another whole dimension today! And because we made ourselves get in there and listen to the advice of someone far more knowledgeable about this stuff than we are, we had very little of our money in stocks and actually have come out a little ahead during the last few weeks!

Moral of that story...you can not put your head in the sand and not at least try to keep up with the changing financial needs of your family. If you have retirement funds, get in there and talk to these guys on a routine basis. And don't sit at home and just imagine what is happening to that account...actually check on it and take the advice of your firm. They really are in it to help you.

Second...the advice I've heard from EVERY ONE of those gurus this week was to pay off your credit cards! We have become a society that lives on credit...it has not always been so! Right now, it is too risky to carry high credit card balances. Interest rates will be increasing. Minimum payments will be increasing. And the amount of credit you have now that is pushing you to the edge just may drive you over the edge very soon.

Third...and closely related...live within your means. Our kids and grandkids have to be taught that they can not have everything they want. We have to realize that there are things that we need and there are things we want and they are very different things! We need a roof over our heads and food on the table. We want vacations, new televisions, and the latest fashions.

Fourth...save! Even just a little! We all have rainy days that hit us and having a little money to fall back on may keep us from getting behind on payments if we are laid off from jobs or find it necessary to take a cut in pay. A friend told me this morning that her father had been a police officer in Michigan and when she was a child there had been a time when their town's budget was gone and her father received and IOU instead of a paycheck several times. There are many people who could not survive even one missed paycheck!

Fifth...if you hit hard times, keep up with your health insurance...the biggest reason for bankruptcy in the US...and insurance on your home and car.

Sixth...don't stop investing. I read a thread on a blog yesterday where the people on it were taking everything they could spare and putting it into their 401K accounts this week because they could get so much for their money in this down market!

There's probably much more...but that's enough from me. This is not hard...but each of us does play an individual role in making sure this situation improves.

And now there's nothing for us to do but put on our "big girl panties" and do what we need to do!




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Wednesday, October 8, 2008

WHAT WOULD YOU BE WILLING TO DO?

I was watching the so-called "town-hall" debate last night...so stripped of any life by all the "rules" that they come up with prior to the events that the participants appear more like cardboard cutouts than actual concerned citizens...when the candidates were asked if they were willing to tell the American people that they would have to make sacrifices in the future in order for the economy to recover.

First of all, I think most of us have already been making sacrifices to one degree or another at least since the price of gasoline began to rise sharply. And, for some, the sacrifices began much earlier than that.

There was a lot of discussion about this right after 9/11 and President Bush has been criticized by some for not asking more of the citizens than to "Go shopping!"

My husband and I were discussing just this very thing a couple of nights ago...well, I admit, I was doing most of the discussing and he was assigned the chore of listening!...but, I said at the time that the majority of Americans would be happy to "do" something if they only knew where to begin. Most of the problems facing our country seem so large that we end up feeling powerless to effect any change at all and leave it up to Washington to solve our problems. And we all know where that leaves us!

My thought was that it can be as simple as the ideas that were helpful back in the 30's...things like Victory Gardens.

If our President went on national television and said, "Listen! We are in a crisis here. Each of us can contribute to easing the pain by doing a few simple things. Taken singly, they don't seem like much, but, as a nation, they can change the course of our country."

First...reset your thermostat! In the summer, we will set our air-conditioning at 72 degrees. In the winter, we will set them at 68 degrees during the day and 65 degrees at night and during hours when we are not at home. Wear a sweater...throw on another blanket at night.


Second...I want each family to reduce the number of miles they drive each week by 10%. Plan your trips in the car more efficiently. Use mass transit if it is available. Promise not to drive your vehicles at all for one day each week.


Third...declare that every Monday will be "Eat at home" day and make it meatless.


Could you sign on to do those three things? Or something similar? Or, together with your own family, come up with a list of three things you could do?

Why isn't anyone on a national level asking us to do even a single simple thing?

People are proud to answer their nation's call for self-sacrifice. Ever seen these? My parents sure did!




So, why are they afraid to ask? Do they think we're too soft or too selfish to want to help? Or would it require committee meetings to come up with a list?

Tuesday, October 7, 2008

THERE'S ALWAYS A SILVER LINING!

I usually try to post several times a week and usually have plenty of ideas and enough things to say to do so without difficulty, but, darn!, it is hard to do right now without being gloomy or getting into politics! I'm a little preoccupied and it's hard not to notice that the wheels have come off the economy! Even Jim Cramer said to take your money out of the stock market if you're going to need it in the next five years! Hello!!! Retirement around the corner!!!

I'm usually upbeat and confident...and if we were in our thirties, I'd be looking for some way to take advantage of this situation. We were talking last night that the day the market took its first plunge that Campbell's soup stock rose! There are always ways to improve your lot. In times like these, you look around and ask, "What am I looking for now?" and you go there. If you can't get credit to buy a new car, then you will be forced to keep the one you have and older cars require repairs...repair shops will be thriving.

When you can't afford to go to more expensive restaurants, the dollar menus will be busy. When food prices rise there is more competition among the supermarkets and the store ads get better. And people who wouldn't be caught dead in Aldi's suddenly discover the great buys there!

My husband used to take his expensive work shoes to have new heels put on them, but it's hard to find someone who does shoe repair anymore. And more people will turn to do-it-yourself projects...not just home repair, either. We used to play beauty parlor at home when I was a kid and I became pretty skilled as the family barber for my dad and brothers!

And having less money to spend for gas will force more people to stay home. Maybe we will get to know each other better over a boardgame or a game of cards! Or over time spent in the kitchen. Maybe we will have potlucks more often rather than meeting friends for dinner in a restaurant. Maybe we will rediscover the library!
Maybe we will teach our children how to sew on a button or knit. Maybe they will have to contribute to the family income again by spending a Saturday afternoon mowing lawns or shoveling snow rather than playing video games!

As concerned as I am about the future of our country, I think there is always something positive to be taken from any situation...you just have to be open to the possibilities.

My husband and I both grew up in families who had little money, but we both managed to go to college and feed and clothe ourselves as we did it. We both know how to be thrifty and do without. And, probably the best thing of all, is that we take pride in who we are rather than what we have or will have. We have been fortunate to have good jobs and a little extra money after the bills were paid, but we also know we are capable of adapting to harder times if we need to.

There is a lot of untapped promise in America. We may have allowed ourselves to turn a little soft during the good times we've had in the past few years, but I think there are lots of people who will step up and do what is required of them during mean years, too! So, the heck with doom and gloom! Maybe this will be a new way to lose weight!!! The I-HAVE-NO-MONEY DIET!!!

Sunday, October 5, 2008

SUNDAY FUNNIES!

MY LITTLE WINDOW ON THE WORLD!
SHINE ON HARVEST MOON!
BLUE ON BLUE...HEARTACHE ON HEARTACHE!
REACHING ACROSS THE AISLE!
YEP!
FALL HOUSECLEANING!
MOO-VING!
HASN'T EVERY MOM WANTED TO DO THIS JUST ONCE!!!
I THINK I HIRED THIS GUY ONCE!
GENIUS!
HEY! RIDE!

GET OUT AND ENJOY THIS MARVELOUS FALL DAY!