Wednesday, April 30, 2008

He who does not economize will have to agonize. ~Confucius


It's being called the Recession Diet, and while it does have a lot to do with changes we are making in our eating habits as money grows tighter, it is really about all the changes Americans are making in their daily routines to conserve money.

We're all doing it...looking for ways to cut back as more and more of our money is spent on the necessities of life...our homes, gas to get to work and back, and food for our tables.

We are a one income older couple with retirement fast approaching and we've been hit with all the above plus much higher deductibles for our medical expenses this year. We've been actively seeking ways to cut our "luxury" expenditures and just being more frugal in general.

This Recession Diet affects our weight loss community as well. People are already complaining about the high cost of "healthy" foods and searching for alternatives to spending money for group meetings and gym memberships. And, while these are decisions a lot of us are going to have to make, we also need to find alternative ways to protect this investment we are making in our health. Now, more than ever, we can't afford the ailments that accompany obesity!

When I looked at the list of ways people were cutting back, I realized that some of those things might actually be blessings in disguise.

The list included eating out less...that's a good thing for most of us who find ourselves eating much healthier at home than we do in restaurants.

People are also eating less red meat due to its being more costly on average than poultry...that's not going to hurt us!

And when people cut back even more severely, they tend to go from buying meat to choosing beans, grains, and pasta...still healthy in the proper portion sizes.

Frugal shoppers look for fruits and vegetables in season...often going to farmer's markets or growing their own! Nothing wrong with that.

When fresh produce is too expensive, many choose frozen or canned products. Many studies have shown that frozen fruits and vegetables may retain more vitamins and minerals than the fresh variety because they are processed the same day they are picked and not shipped long distances.

People tend to cook more of their foods from scratch when times are tough and spend less on processed and packaged items. We all know the value of that choice!

So, if we are cutting back on fast foods, preparing more of our meals at home, perhaps growing our own foods in a backyard garden plot, and performing more of our own chores rather than paying someone else to do them...maybe this Recession Diet could actually turn out to be a blessing in disguise!

Oatmeal is healthy and cheap! Great breakfast.

I love drained and rinsed canned kidney beans tossed on a salad for lunch. Or a pot of soup made with the bits and pieces of all the vegetables that are left in the fridge at the end of the week. No sense letting them go to waste.

Frittatas made from eggs and vegetables with a little cheese are great with something green at supper time. Asian, Mexican, and Italian cuisines are great for using small bits of meat along with vegetables and rice or pasta to make meals that taste great, cost less, and are really healthy.

We don't have to spend a lot to eat better. We just have to be a little more creative and plan ahead.

By the way...the Weight Watcher Core list is a great place to look for frugal food items!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MIKEY
You'll always be my
NASCAR
hero!

Tuesday, April 29, 2008

From Bitten and Bound, this could be the beginning of a new trend:

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Chloe Marshall has recently won the Miss Surrey 2008 beauty pageant. She will now advance to the Miss England contest, which is open to females age 17-24. She will be eligible to enter photographic contests around the country. The winner of Miss England will go on to the Miss World Final.

The Sun did an interview with the vivacious teen recently. She said:

I wanted to go through to the Miss England finals to break the stereotype that you have to be tall and skinny to be considered beautiful. I wanted to make a bit of a statement. When I studied the other entrants for the competition I concluded that, pretty as they were, they were all uniformly blonde and Barbie doll-like. I want to show girls out there that it is possible to be beautiful and not a standard size zero.

The 5′10″ and 38DD is sweet 16 (will be 17 in time for the pageant) and is also a size 16. She has signed on with Models Plus agency. According to their spokesman, models who reflect real women are desperately needed. The pictures we have included with this article depict a curvy, healthy young woman. This will be in stark contrast to the super skinny young woman who will also be running for the Miss England crown.

The Sun’s Say No To Size Zero campaign aims to stop the exploitation of vulnerable models and the unhealthy message sent out by their emaciated bodies. Chloe Marshall could very well blow the top off of many of the current stereotypes that exist with regard to feminine body image.

Bitten and Bound says - Go Girl!

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Whether or not she wins, she is certainly a beautiful girl and a role model for other young women who don't fit into the size 0 world of high-fashion modeling.

As I read weight loss blogs, my heart breaks for some of my favorite people who suffer self-image problems and feel bound by the numbers that appear on their scales. I look at them and see beautiful women but they seem to fail to view themselves in the same light.

While we all know the importance of eating healthier and treating our bodies well so we can live the best lives possible and reduce our chances of developing diseases related to obesity, I think we should also recognize that beauty and health are not a number on a scale. And while a lot of us are seeking to lose weight, we also must realize that we are beautiful and worthy people no matter what we weigh at the present. (That goes for you handsome guys out there too!)

We are seeking improvement with our efforts...not a total remake of who we are as people! There's an important difference in the two!

Monday, April 28, 2008

NEAT...O!!!

It's raining outside this morning and am I glad! A good excuse to back away from the outside work I've been doing...raking, shoveling, spreading, planting..."Swing Low, Sweet Chariot!!!"...and returning to the inside chores...laundry, sweeping, dusting..."comin' for to carry me home"!

We amateur gardeners are subject to the blisters, aches and pains that accompany short bursts of enthusiastic but uncharacteristic outdoor activities, and I sure paid for my newly discovered interest in yard maintenance with sore muscles all weekend!

But, oddly enough, that soreness was a source of pride and empowerment. Knowing that I have the ability to do heavier chores gives me confidence and, it sure puts doing a load of laundry into perspective!

And even more important, I am moving my body again...very important in this weight-loss journey. It's a vicious cycle...gain weight...become more sedentary...gain more weight...move even less!

I discovered NEAT this morning. It stands for Non-Exercise Activity Thermogenesis and it is something all of us who are trying to win this battle with overweight need to be aware of.

NEAT is the energy that is used when we are performing any activity other than eating or sleeping. That includes the yard work I've been doing as well as normal daily activities like washing dishes, typing on a keyboard, walking, or just fidgeting.

Studies being conducted in this field indicate that in most people the calories burned in a normal day by these simple activities add up to more than the calories burned during "exercise" by non-athletes. And the suggestion is that the more we just move around during the day doing normal activities...especially activities that require ambulation...the less likely we are to gain weight.

So, if we want to increase our chances of losing weight and keeping it off, getting out of our chairs and just doing ANYTHING is preferable to sitting. Our convenience oriented lifestyles have increased our chances of gaining weight. The study cites as problems dishwashers, cars, remotes, riding lawnmowers, drive-through restaurants, Game Boys, elevators, and snow blowers.

So, I guess we should try to reverse the use of some of those energy-saving devices and push a broom rather than an electric sweeper, push a mower rather than ride one, stand while talking on the phone, or even preparing and cooking our own meals rather than eating them from a bag we brought home from a drive-up window.

The study suggests we need to "adopt a movement-centered lifestyle" in order to burn more calories...just the opposite of what our remote-control driven lifestyle has been.

It will require some doing to change our mindset that we must always do things the easiest, quickest, and most labor-saving way...it is almost un-American! But with gas at an all time high, maybe we will be forced to do more walking or biking in the future. Maybe economics will dictate that we eat more meals at home. Who's to say?

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Saturday, April 26, 2008

THE AMATEUR GARDENER

I just gotta say:
OUCH!!!


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Friday, April 25, 2008

I HAVE AN IDEA!


My grandson, Xander, is known for his habit of beginning a conversation with his index finger stuck in the air, declaring, "I have an idea!", and then going on to suggest something he considers fun like looking for frogs or eating chocolate ice cream!So, I'll play Xander this morning. I'll point my index finger into the air and declare, "I have an idea!"

It started with my preparing the plot for our tomato plants the other day. I was working up a sweat and using quivering muscles that get little use most of the time when I got to thinking of all the time I spent with my family in the garden while I was growing up. The garden was a necessity for our farm family. We depended on it for our food throughout the summer growing season and into the fall and winter when we ate the canned product of all our summer work.

We always had a little garden as our kids were growing up...not because I particularly wanted it...after all, I left the farm and married a city boy because I was a little tired of farm life at that time! But my city boy had a yearning to be a suburban farmer and always wanted to get out there and plant something every spring! He would till and toil and then go fishing and it was left to me and the girls to maintain and gather the fruits of his springtime zeal!

Now, we do it because we love the flavor of homegrown tomatoes and they are darned near impossible to get here in the city. I can't tell you how many times I've been told a tomato is homegrown and picked it up to find it hard to the touch and without an ounce of that tomato aroma that is essential to the real thing. And when you do find them at a farmer's market or along the roadside, they are expensive and so rare that you have to fight your way to the front of the line to get some.

A local nursery does a very smart thing this time of year to get people in...they offer 10-cent tomato plants for one day only! My husband always gets over there and buys his share. Yesterday, he had the Trailblazer loaded with co-workers as they went on their lunch break to grab a few.

Anyway...back to the big idea!

I got to thinking I'd use today to promote planting a garden with your kids. There are so many advantages to doing it that I hardly need point them out. But I will!
1. It promotes family together time. It is a great time to laugh and share a common interest.
2. It gets everybody outside and away from the television and computer games.
3. It is a great activity for using those otherwise unused muscles. I've been getting a great work-out this week using that hoe and shovel and rake...spreading mulch, bending over to weed and plant!
4. It teaches kids where food comes from and gives them a greater appreciation for the work and effort that goes into growing that food.
5. It gives you an opportunity to get your kids interested in new and different foods.
6. It gives you an opportunity to open your kid's eyes to nature. They love looking at worms and bugs and birds.
7. It teaches them patience. My grandkids thought you planted it and could stand there and watch it grow. They learned that you had to continue to care for the plant and wait for the rewards for doing so.
8. They learn what it feels like to accomplish something...to see something through from beginning to end. That is an important lesson to carry over into the rest of their life.
9. You get to eat some great fresh food.
10. You get to send some really tired kids to bed and see them sleep like they haven't slept for a long time!


I was going to feature a few sites that speak to kids and gardening but when I Googled "gardening with kids", so many great sites came up that I didn't even bother...look for yourself and you'll see what I mean.

And, if you don't have any kids around...do it anyway. Even if it's just a pot on the balcony of your apartment. Just one cherry tomato plant can provide a heap of tomatoes and they keep giving for months!
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Since we've been doing the garden and flower beds, my husband and I have turned off the television, gotten some good exercise, eaten fewer evening snacks, and, maybe best of all, we've spent time talking to each other as we work or sit down to rest our weary bones on the deck afterwards.

Have I sold you on the idea yet? Well, there's always Xander's ideas...frogs and chocolate ice cream!
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P.S. Noelle suggested that the positions you have to assume to garden remind her of yoga positions. I hadn't thought of that! But I think I probably look more like this:











OOPS!

Thursday, April 24, 2008

A FUN MEME...give it a try!

I found the following meme at A Southern Grace this morning and it looked like so much fun that I just had to try it for myself.

Here are the rules:

1. Go to www.flickr.com.
2. Type your answer to each question in the “search” box.
3. Using only the first page, pick an image.
4. Copy and paste the html into your blog.

So, here I go:
What is your first name?
(be sure and look at the television screen!)

What is your favorite food?

What high school did you attend?
(in Hope, Indiana!)

What is your favorite color?

Who is your favorite celebrity crush?

What is your favorite drink?

What do you want to be when you grow up?
(a role model)

What do you love most in life?
(feeling safe)
What is the one word that would describe you?
(contentment!)
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Nature provides a free lunch, but only if we control our appetites. ~William Ruckelshaus, Business Week, 18 June 1990

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I'm a couple of days late with posting for Earth Day, but I guess it's never really too late to talk about our impact on the environment. One of my favorite people in blogland is Skinny Guy out in the Garden State of New Jersey. Skinny lost a ton of weight a while back and is now in the maintenance phase of his journey, hence, the name of his blog site: Gotta Keep It Off.

I mention him because I adore him and also for the fact that his post on Earth Day was entitled Girth Day and he had this to say:

"Today marks the 39th observance of Earth Day, an annual event in which we examine the effects of our impact on the planet and our efforts to minimize the environmental damage we cause.

I believe that in some ways my efforts to lose weight may have helped reduce my environmental footprint as well as my waist size. For that reason (and because it rhymes with Earth Day), I'm also designating today as Girth Day.

"But Skinny Guy," I can hear you asking, "How can not eating like a pig anymore possibly have a positive effect on the environment??"

Boy, am I glad you asked! Keep in mind that the following statements are only my opinions and not necessarily approved by Al Gore...

  • Eating more whole foods and less pre-packaged food lessens the amount of trash I contribute to landfills.
  • Smaller clothes uses less energy and less fabric/synthetics/leather to manufacture.
  • Personal greenhouse emissions are way, way down with healthier eating habits.
  • More exercise (Don't you roll your eyes at me!) equals more exhaled CO2 to feed plant life.
The post has had me thinking ever since about the impact our weight loss journeys have in this process.

I didn't get to being obese by eating only my share of food. I was eating for at least two people!

Now, maybe your over-consumption wasn't at that level...maybe it was only 50% or even 10% over what your requirement of food should have been. But multiply that over-consumption times all the people in America with weight problems and you're talking about a lot of food!

Producing that much more food for Americans has probably had a huge impact on our own economy and resources as well as that of the global community.

So, if I am eating for two, what else am I doing?

Because I am overweight, I tend to drive rather than walk where I want to go.

Because I am eating to entertain myself, I tend to let the fruits and vegetables I bought go to waste in the fridge while I eat lots of pre-packaged foods. Or I go the fast food route and throw away the tons of wrappers and boxes and styrofoam it comes packaged in after my meal.

I am less likely to grow any of my own food or to even prepare my own food.

Because of my size, I feel I need a larger sturdier car.

I am putting a strain on the healthcare system by eating my way into hypertension, Type II Diabetes, and all the other weight related diseases that are affecting the overweight.

The need for larger clothes, shoes, furniture, seats in planes and theaters...it goes on and on. And each of those things has an impact on the environment and the economy.

So, I agree with Skinny Guy. In many ways, our own girth probably does have a powerful impact on the whole global community and our efforts toward cleaning up our own act by eating for one, eating more locally grown whole foods, and getting ourselves healthier in the process may be a good thing not only for ourselves but also for the Earth.

So, Kathy. You've identified some of the negative things you were doing...what are you doing differently now? Glad you asked!

I'm eating for one!

I'm eating more whole foods!

I just came in from preparing a bed for tomato plants that I will grow, tend, and eat this summer. You can't get closer to home than that!

I'm eating fewer meals out which means we stay home, use less gas, use less of that fast food paper and styrofoam, and let less food go to waste sitting in the vegetable drawer of the fridge.

I'm packing better food for my husband to take to work with him for lunch and I'm packing it up in reusable containers.

I've been able to remove myself from overuse of the healthcare system by getting healthier, cutting way back on the drugs I have to take, and having to see my doctor far less often.

So, thanks for the suggestion, Skinny. It definitely gave me food for thought!

Wednesday, April 23, 2008

WOW!!!

WERE YOU AS
IMPRESSED
AS
I WAS
!!!

It's so hard when I have to, and so easy when I want to. ~Annie Gottlier

WHICH CAME FIRST?

THE HEAD

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OR THE HEART?

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I made a comment yesterday that if you get your head straight in this weight loss thing that your heart will follow, but after doing so, I thought about it all day.

There have certainly been times in the past when my heart led me in my efforts. I wanted to do everything I could to lose weight and get healthy. My heart was in it and because it was, I was able to wrap my mind around the details of a plan. I was happy making out food plans and being in the kitchen peeling and chopping and bagging up vegetables for future use.

I felt like I was on an adventure and looked forward to graphing my weight loss and having a visual record of how far I had come. It was actually fun trying out new recipes and coaxing every bit of pleasure I could out of a limited number of daily points.

That is the easy stage. When the heart rules, it is not such a chore for the mind to follow.

But let a few weeks and months go by. I've lost enough to feel good in the clothes I already own. I'm feeling better. I'm looking better. I'm getting compliments.

But the weight loss stalls a little.

And someone brings in a plate of homemade cookies and the memory of what they taste like comes rushing back.

And there is a cookout on the weekend. There will be lots of homey foods there...the ones that I used to eat on a daily basis.

And I glance at myself in the mirror and realize that I haven't changed the way I look all that much...what was I thinking when I thought I looked so much better?

And why did I think I could ever succeed in really changing the way I eat after all these years?

And why didn't I take the time yesterday to go and get some fresh fruit and vegetables in the house? Now, what am I going to eat today?

And suddenly, the heart is not so involved in my decision making! In fact, my heart isn't in it at all! And my feet and butt are dragging right along with my heart!

Where's that candy I hid after Valentine's Day, anyway???

Been there?

That's when the head has to take over for the heart and sometimes that is a HUGE battle!
When I am determined to eat, there is little my brain can do to stop me.

All the "YOU REALLY SHOULDN'T BE EATING THAT" warnings in the world won't keep me from sabotaging my own efforts at losing weight. Putting the brakes on and stopping this train wreck is necessary...but very difficult.

That's when I have to convince my head that there will be an end to this and I will determine when that occurs. That's what ONE PERFECT DAY was all about. I drew the line in the sand and made a very public spectacle of doing so. The part of my character that dictates that I will honor my promises kicks in and the planning and organizing part of me takes over. Pretty soon, the head is in the right place again and I am able to get through that day in spite of my heart reminding me of how easy it would be to put an end to this Point thing and just eat like a crazed animal!

But, the funny thing is, about half-way through that first day, my heart began to remember what it was like to enjoy eating rationally and feeling good about my choices! It wasn't long before my head and my heart were into it and my plan was on track again.

So, I guess there are times when the heart leads and the head follows, but there are also times when the head has to drive the heart.

And they both have to be working before my butt follows either one!

Tuesday, April 22, 2008

A "BETTER" TUESDAY

Wow! Yesterday was great! One Perfect Day was just what I needed and thanks to all of you who joined me and laid out your own perfect days on your blogs. You inspired me to get it done and I'm so grateful for your support.

I was really nervous going into it because I was putting it all out there for you to see. Would I make it or have to admit defeat? Would I make some dumb mistake figuring points and have point-savvy WW'ers calling me on it?

I learned a few things when I got back into the "Getting Started" book and was posting points...especially on that stir-fry at supper time. I've kinda gotten into the habit of thinking of all vegetables as 0-point foods...not so! Raw carrots are 0-point, but a cup of cooked carrots are 1-point! Peas also had to be counted! Those 2 points are minor and non-WW'ers are going to say they are insignificant, but when you get down to the niddy-griddy of losing weight, we all know that 100 or 200 extra calories a day make a difference. I'm not there yet, but I remember how Kate worried about how many points she should assign to her pumpkin oatmeal...it does matter.

I also was surprised, again, at how much I could eat if I was eating the right foods...namely, those belly-filling vegetables! I just about emptied my fridge of veggies yesterday. I haven't done that for a while.

It is good to get back to basics occasionally and to review your program no matter which program you choose to follow.

And, while I was seeking perfection yesterday to make a point, I am the last person on Earth who thinks perfection is possible, or even necessary, long-term. None of us are perfect. I agree with this quote from Cammy's blog:

"I think I've mentioned before something an ex-manager used to say frequently: "Don't let best get in the way of better." There are a lot of "right" things about striving for perfection, but we are all human. We will fail, and we will often do it spectacularly. If we're lucky, we'll learn from it, but sometimes the only thing we can do is get past it. We will know we have truly grown if, after one of those oops! moments we sometimes have, we refocus on this fundamental truth: We don't have to be the best. We just have to be better."




Monday, April 21, 2008

ONE PERFECT DAY...IT'S HERE!

Well, this is the day I chose to challenge myself to have just ONE PERFECT DAY on my weight loss plan. I've drifted in the past few weeks and I needed a January 1 kind of re-commitment to get me focused. And, frankly, I needed a day to review my plan and sharpen some of those edges I have been rounding off!

Quite a few of you have decided to join me in the challenge, and I'm so excited that you have. It makes me braver knowing I'm not doing this alone. Every time I make a food decision today, I'll be very aware that there are lots of other people out there making those same choices and it will make it easier for me...and you, hopefully!

To begin, whatever your plan, let's define it and decide early just what that perfect day will require of us.

For me, it will be Weight Watcher's Flex plan. I've been doing Core, but I decided to go back to Flex at least for a short time so I can re-familiarize myself with points. I've gotten too loosey-goosey with them, I think.

The three rules for Flex are:

1. Stay within your points budget made up of a daily points target plus a weekly points allowance.
2. Track what you eat and its points value.
3. Follow the Good Health Guidelines:
*Five servings of vegetables and fruits
*Whole-grain foods whenever possible
*2-3 servings of milk products
*Healthy oil
*1-2 servings of protein
*Limit added sugar and alcohol
*Drink at least 6 glasses of water
*Take a multiple vitamin-mineral supplement

So, today I will record and figure the points for all my food and not exceed 33 points (28+5WPA).
I will drink at least 6 glasses of water, include a healthy oil, get in 3 servings of milk products (my age dictates that I get that 3rd serving), stick to whole-grains, and include at least a couple of fruits and three servings of vegetables. I can do that.

I will update this post every time I eat something today and keep it real!

Good Luck to all of you who are joining me, and if you read this and haven't committed already, just hop on board and we'll all have a perfect day of eating under our belts!

ONE PERFECT DAY DIARY
7:30: I am as full as a tick! Excuse the Midwest description! I just had a really filling breakfast
that included dairy, fruit, protein, and fiber with a huge amount of volume all for 3 points!
Strawberries 1 1/2 cups 1
Fat-free yogurt 1 cup 2
FiberOne Cereal 1/2 cup 0
Coffee Creamer SF 1 Tbsp 1

Breakfast Total: 4

9:30: I've had 2 of my 6 glasses of water! That's about twice the water I've had this month! Argh!
10:30: Snack:
1 Lite Thomas English Muffin 1
1 oz lean ham 1
mustard, onion, lettuce 0
1 cup skim milk 2

Snack Total: 4

11:45: Glass #3 of water and a cup of green tea with lemon 0

12:30: Lunch
Salad of lettuce, zucchini, green onion, carrot, and asparagus,
1 tsp olive oil and 3 tsp red wine vinegar 1
Lean Cuisine Tuscan Chicken 4

Lunch Total: 5

3:00 Snack:
1 banana 1
1 cup skim milk 2

Total for Snack: 3

So, it's 3 p.m. and I've had enough fruits and vegetables to meet my requirements for the day; I've had 3 servings of milk; I've had 6 glasses of water; I've had protein and 1 healthy oil. I've had 16 points so I have between 12 and 17 points left for the day. WooHoo!!!

Supper:
Salad of lettuce, carrot, green onion, 1 tsp olive oil and red wine vinegar 1
Stir-fry of 1 cup carrots 1
1/2 cup peas 1
Zucchini 0
Green onion 0
1/2 red bell pepper 0
3/4 cup mini shrimp 1
Soy sauce, garlic, and ginger 0
Fit'n'light ice cream sandwich 2

Supper Total: 6 points
6 (11) points remaining

Evening Snack: 100 calorie bag popcorn + 100 calorie bag snack mix=4 points
Juice of 1 lemon in water and Equal for lemonade=0 points (as close as I can tell)

Evening Snack Total: 4 points

Today's Total Points=26 Points
All Guidelines met!

That's what a perfect day looks like for me! Hurrah!

How did you all do?


Friday, April 18, 2008

JUST ONE!

ONE PERFECT DAY CHALLENGE!!!
MONDAY APRIL 21
PASS IT ON!!!


I've been doing it and I'm reading your blogs, so I know you've been doing it, too!
I've been playing around with my program again. A little extra here...a little "I'll do better next time" there. The motivation is slipping.

But summer is fast approaching and none of us want to feel bad in the heat. I want to step up my game and I want to share that enthusiasm with you.

So, I've decided to declare that I'm going to pledge to myself and all of you that I am going to follow my plan to the letter Monday. I'm going to plan like crazy for it and make sure that I make no mistakes in my calculations for just one day! I can do that and so can you!

I figure this will send us back to our rule books...you know the ones you think you remember!
And the beauty of being on-plan for one day is that it reminds us that it can be done, that it isn't that bad, and the second day just might be possible as well.

So, what do you think? I'm going to do it. And I will post here every bite I take that day so you will know that I've done it!

If you think it is a good idea, spread the word throughout blog-land and let's all have ONE PERFECT DAY together!!!

Thursday, April 17, 2008

I LOVE THIS AD!

A SHOUT-OUT!!!

Shout
One of my favorite weight loss bloggers in the whole world is Roni of Weight Watchen, who I have dubbed "Queen of All Media" because of her blogging community, her video recipe blog, and her personal weight loss blog. Then there are her appearances in magazines...and I've forgotten the details now, but seems there may have been a TV interview??? If there wasn't, there should have been! Anyway, she participated in Blogger Appreciation Day earlier in the week. Here's what she said:

One of my favorite (non-weight loss) blogs, Problogger announced an unofficial Blogger Appreciate day! What a fabulous idea!

To quote Darren

We’re in it together, blogging is about collaboration and together going further than we can by ourselves - so why not help another blogger today by shooting them a word of encouragement, a pep talk, a congratulations, an idea to help them improve or some other positive constructive message. Better still, do it publicly on your blog and tell the world about another blogger who you appreciate.

She went on to name me as one of the bloggers and teased me about having more blogs than she did!

Let me just say this about that: GUILTY!!!

I can't help it. I seem to have a lot to say and the dog just doesn't want to hear it, so I blog it. That's the beauty of the Cyber Age isn't it? And if there is another loony who thinks what I have to say is interesting and wants to read it...fine. If not...fine. I've said it and I'm happy to put it out there and go back to knitting.

I have this blog which I dedicate to my effort at weight loss and it is where I put most of my effort. It helps me stay committed to continuing the journey and is also my port into the weight loss community. I've met some wonderful people doing this, made a couple of true friendships, and I love it.

My second blog...Kathy Calculates Recipes was a natural extension of the weight loss blog because I love cooking and recipes in general, and wanted a place to put the recipes I've collected while losing weight that fit into the WW Flex and Core programs. It makes it easier for me to find them and I wanted to put them out there for others who might be interested. As Noelle found, they are not perfect as far as point values or whether or not something is Core or not...use them at your own risk and check the values for yourself...I'm an imperfect Weight Watcher!!! But most of them are accurate...and the food is good...I can vouch for that!

The third blog...Kathy Calculates Potluck Recipes was an extension of the WW recipe site. We have a collection of recipes that I have cooked for my family over the years and ones we run across now that are personal and family favorites. I wanted a place to put them where they would be handy for my friends and family and decided a blog would make them accessible to anyone who wanted to see them. These are the higher fat and sugar traditional recipes that don't fit into the slimmed down recipes on the other site.

The fourth blog...Kathy Calculates Everything Else was originally set up as a place where I could rant and rave...a place to get things off my chest. And it has turned into an intra-family site that is open to my daughters. It is where I put the plans for Lara's wedding, for instance. And where I copy ideas and recipes to try in the future. So it is closed and messy!

I had a knitting blog for awhile, but didn't find the time to devote to it that I wanted so I reluctantly took it down.

I have played with the idea of a blog devoted to NASCAR, but, again, I don't think I would have the time to do it justice.

I have just begun a fifth blog...The Opinionated Hoosier Housewife...that I have devoted to mostly politics. I have also used it as a place to rant or praise on occasion. It is random and wholly personal opinion, but that's what I intended.

So...that's the extent of my blogs. I have said before that blogs are like candy...you can't have just one! But I have also edited myself...as you can see...it could be far worse than it is!

So...thanks for the shout-out, Roni. I appreciate it.

Tuesday, April 15, 2008

He who gives when he is asked has waited too long. ~Sunshine Magazine

I just finished putting a beef roast in the crockpot for our dinner. It was a gift from our neighbor who just refilled his freezer with a side of beef. Wasn't that nice?

And the plumbing job yesterday was going to cost us $1500, but a young man my husband works with had explored the crawl space for us, found the problem, and was standing there when we got the quote. The next thing I know, my husband and this angel of mercy have decided to take the day off from work and do the job themselves! And it was not a pretty job! Wasn't that nice?

While the guys were working under the house, another neighbor came to the door and said her car wouldn't start and wondered if we could give her a hand. My husband had it going in no time and she was off. Wasn't that nice?

My husband was trying to pull out a shrub from the front of the house last week and the shrub was winning. Another neighbor drove by and saw what was happening and came over to offer a hand and the shrub was out of there in no time. Wasn't that nice?

Another neighbor always mows the kinda steep portion of our back yard that leads down to the dock. He is tall and skinny and trusts himself on the rider to do it. Hubby is less sleek, older and perhaps wiser, and has to do it with the push mower and it wears him out. Our neighbor saw that and just began doing that portion of the shore along with his own. Wasn't that nice?

Another neighbor has a scoop for the front of his truck and routinely goes up each of the neighbor's driveways with it if it snows more than a few inches. Isn't that nice?

There are all kinds of ways to repay these kindnesses and we try to be good neighbors in return. There have been more than a few pies from my kitchen that have made their way into neighboring homes. And my husband is always ready to lend a hand if it is needed.

In a world where neighbors are often people you never meet or get to know at all, there still seems to be a lot of helpful people out there and it is heartwarming to realize that sometimes.

I am so grateful for that and for all of you who come and read my blog and leave comments. You help me in ways you probably don't even know. Thank you so much.

And here's a little sign of gratitude that you can pass on to our nation's soldiers if you run across one...I thought this was a wonderful idea and I'd like to pass it on to all of you!

Have a great weight loss day, fellow bloggers!

Monday, April 14, 2008

A DISTRACTED NOTE

IS THIS NOT BEAUTIFUL?
HEIDI'S SPRING TABBBOULEH
I WANT SOME NOW!

I would reduce the amount of the olive oil and the walnuts to fit into WW guidelines, but I don't think that would change the taste all that much.

The asparagus is so pretty. I got a bunch of Purple Asparagus in my last vegetable order and it was so much better than the thinner green stalks of previous weeks. It was thicker and had a sweeter and less bitter flavor. I could have eaten it for every meal!

I have knitted myself silly since I got my first "Sock of the Month Kit" from Patternworks last Thursday evening. I couldn't put them down until they were done! They will be a May birthday gift for my sock collecting younger daughter's birthday...she has a huge number and I've given her several pairs of home knitted ones designed with just her in mind.

And then we had to deal with a plumbing emergency...word to the wise...if your plumbing is fastened with plastic straps, run, don't walk to the hardware store and buy metal straps and replace it ASAP! It is always shocking to me when a builder puts good money into constructing a house and then saves a few pennies on something that, if it fails, will cause thousands of dollars in damage! Ugh!

Saturday, April 12, 2008

IF I HAD ONLY LISTENED!

I could have been a "Mind Sticker"!!!


From Andrew Sullivan's blog today.

NOW I'VE SEEN EVERYTHING!!!

Larry the Cable Guy
has lost
50#
on
NUTRISYSTEM!

GIT-R-DONE!

RANDOM SATURDAY

GRANDPARENTS DAY

We had the opportunity yesterday to visit our triplet grandchildren's Kindergarten class on Grandparent's Day. It was one of those things that you think are going to be tedious and then you go out of duty and leave feeling it was one of the greatest experiences you've ever had! The kids are so enthusiastic at that age and drug us and the other set of grandparents from one learning station to another...the light box with x-rays of animals, the 2-liter bottles filled with colored water and joined to demonstrate what a tornado looks like, the craft table with crayons and glue sticks all ready for imagination to take over, and the very popular computer stations!

Both grandpas agreed that elementary teachers were sure prettier than they were when they were boys!!! All kidding aside, I admire any woman who can wrangle a group of kids that age long enough to accomplish any learning, but she does. There were two Hispanic boys with limited knowledge of the English language in the class...a distinct challenge for both the boys and the teacher. Teagan introduced us to her friend, Diego, and remarked that he didn't speak English, and went on to use her best "Dora and Diego" Spanish to introduce us! I guess all those hours of watching Boots and Dora paid off.

We had our picture taken with the three of them and it is now a prized possession, proudly displayed on the side of the refrigerator!

Next Friday is Grandparent's Day at Audrey's school so Grandpa is giving up another cherished vacation day to go catch the moment...we have to gather up all this Grandma and Grandpa love before they get old enough to start rolling their eyes at us!!!


CAN YOU BLAME HIM?
It doesn't matter whether he's your idea of what a candidate for President should be or not, I was taken this week by the criticism of his food and drink choices by some of the pundits. Senator Obama and his wife have two young daughters and are concerned about the type of foods they eat, as are many of us. Michelle said she noticed one of their daughters was getting a little pudgy and decided to replace some of the Pop-Tarts and cereal with fresh fruit and to start moving their whole family in that direction. Sounds reasonable to me.

But in a campaign stop at a Pennsylvania diner, the Senator was offered a cup of coffee by the owner and he declined the offer and asked if he could have a glass of orange juice instead. Another reasonable request in my book and one the owner was probably more than happy to oblige...but he caught flack for not being good at this "diner thing" from Chris Matthews that evening. Chris felt he should have just taken the coffee and shut up...the true measure of a good candidate, I guess.

And he has been berated for not being a beer drinker and turning down fried foods in favor of leaner offerings. Not "manly" behavior...how will this play in Pennsylvania? And they give as an example of "proper" campaign behavior the friendly vodkas Senator Hilton and Senator McCain shared back when!

Disagree on his policies or his voting record...but, please, don't condemn him for the fact that he promotes a healthier lifestyle!

MY FAVORITE NASCAR TEAM

The Cup race is tonight so I have Sunday afternoon free to go to Chucky Cheese with the grandkids tomorrow! (Everybody kinda knows not to bother Mimi when the race is on!) So, it will be a pizza day for lunch...gonna have to do the veggies today to save out enough WPA's to take the hit but they're worth it! Their choice could have been "Horton Hears a Who" and then I would have been faced with movie popcorn, Twizzlers, M&M's, and circus peanuts!

Have a great weekend, everybody!
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Friday, April 11, 2008

If you want to forget all your other troubles, wear too tight shoes. ~The Houghton Line, November 1965

High Heels
Isn't it the truth?

Perspective is everything...the world can be falling apart and it's really hard to care about it if you're in pain yourself.

For a lot of us, those extra pounds are just as painful as those ill-fitting shoes, and we sometimes view the world from that perspective.

Having a plan and following it can be just as liberating as taking those darned shoes off and tossing them...it feels good! And it allows us to think about all the things that we've been ignoring while our attention was diverted toward our own pain.
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And now...totally off subject! Could American Idol have been more cruel in the way they dismissed Michael Johns last night??? "Last year we didn't eliminate anyone in the Idol Gives Back week"...but this year...you're gone, Michael Johns!!! He received the lowest number of votes...it's his turn to go...fair enough. But don't dangle the possibility that he will be given a pass because it's a special week and then slam him with the bad news! That was just WRONG!!!


Wednesday, April 9, 2008

We are living in a world today where lemonade is made from artificial flavors and furniture polish is made from real lemons. ~Alfred E. Newman ...

My produce delivery this week included a couple of Meyer lemons...a variety I was unfamiliar with. Ah, who am I kidding? I didn't even know there were different types of lemons! Did you?

So, I had to read about them so I'd know what I was doing when I went to use them. Learning about new fruits and vegetables has been one of the best things about getting the deliveries, by the way. I spent years buying the same old stuff every time I went to the supermarket. Times have changed.

According to the information that came with my lemons, here is the dish on Meyer lemons:

"Meyer lemons are thought to be a cross between a lemon and a mandarin orange. Their slightly sweet taste overcomes any bitterness you find in a normal lemon. In the culinary world they are respected as the #1 lemon. They are often used in recipes for their peel and their fruit. They are small in nature, but delicious."

They are smaller...probably by at least a third...and the skin is thinner than on the lemons I'm used to buying.

There's a recipe accompanying the lemons for Lemon Zest, Parmesan, and Asparagus which I'm having for lunch today. It calls for tossing the asparagus in boiling water for just a couple of minutes and then, while it is still hot, tossing it with olive oil, a little grated Parmesan cheese, freshly grated lemon zest, and salt and pepper.

That will leave me with the remains of the zested lemon which I'm going to divide in half, using one half in a cup of tea this afternoon and the juice from the second half added to a teaspoon of olive oil and tossed with lettuce leaves to serve alongside the asparagus.

That will leave me with a second lemon and I'm searching for just the right recipe...I don't want to waste that pretty thing!

The L.A.Times had a story on 100 things to do with Meyer lemons that was pretty interesting...pizza, rissoto, chicken and fish, all kinds of desserts. Even slicing them thinly and putting them on sandwiches! I'm sure I'll find something really interesting.

One of my favorite pancake toppers is freshly squeezed orange juice and a light sprinkle of Splenda...I'll bet the lemon would be great used that way. Maybe one of those whole-grain or cottage cheese based pancakes tomorrow morning!!!

I'll close with a quote from Tea of Tea and Cookies:
"These are the moments when I wish someone had invented scratch-and-sniff internet. I wish I could convey to you the tangy sweet smell of a fresh Meyer lemon—"

I agree with Tea.

Tuesday, April 8, 2008

A COUPLE OF NEW FOOD FINDS

grilled nam Yee chicken

FYI: In case you hadn't heard, KFC is test marketing a new grilled chicken here in Indianapolis and a few other cities.

Here is the press release:

In an effort to gain appeal with health-conscious consumers, KFC Corp. is market testing a new menu item -- Kentucky Grilled Chicken.

The grilled chicken, which has about half the calories of KFC's traditional fried chicken, is being tested in Indianapolis, Colorado Springs, San Diego, Oklahoma City, Jacksonville and Austin, according to a news release.

Louisville-based KFC, a subsidiary of Yum Brands Inc. (NYSE: YUM), plans to offer the grilled chicken menu nationwide in early 2009.

The move is designed to "help KFC continue to evolve and increase our relevance among consumers looking for nonfried menu options," Gregg Dedrick, president of KFC, said in the release.

Kentucky Grilled Chicken has between 60 to 180 calories and 3 to 9 grams of fat, while KFC's Original Recipe chicken has between 130 to 360 calories and 8 to 24 grams of fat.

The prices of both the grilled and fried options will be about the same, the release said.

We had an opportunity to try it over the weekend and thought it was really good. The picture above is not from KFC...I don't think they have released a picture of their grilled chicken to the press...but it looks just like what we had in our dinner. There is a lot of flavor throughout the chicken, including a "charcoal-grilled" edge that I wasn't expecting. We removed the skin before eating our pieces and the flavor of the spices was still apparent. I felt the seasoning might have been imparted in a marinade prior to the grilling since the chicken was so moist.

Our family had pretty much given up on eating at KFC due to all the fat in the coating of their chicken...we always felt a little ill after eating it, and once the coating was removed, the chicken didn't have much flavor. We would probably include the grilled variety in the list of fast-food we might eat in the future.



Another product we've tried recently are the new PRINGLES STIX. They are thin cracker sticks that are baked and come 10 packets to a box. We have tried the Honey Butter, Crunchy Wheat, and the Vanilla varieties. They also come in a Pizza flavor.

Each packet is 90 calories and has 3.5 grams of fat and 0 grams of fiber, so they fall in the category of treat, but a treat that won't cause undo harm.

The wheat are great with a salad and the Vanilla are more cookie-like but not overly sweet. In fact, I found the Honey Butter variety to be sweeter than the Vanilla.

Monday, April 7, 2008

ROFLMAO!!!

Noelle commented today that I've lived with my
unhealthy eating habits
a lot longer than I have my
healthy eating habits
and
maybe in another
40 years
the good habits
will win!

Let me see!
58+40=98
so
I can look forward
to looking like this
when
I reach
Goal!!!













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Pick battles big enough to matter, small enough to win. ~Jonathan Kozel

Another picture of Lizzie and I. The one thing we love to do the most. Revolutionary War women!

I've been at this weight loss thing for two years and 4 months now and if I had to describe the experience in a few sentences, it would go like this:

THE GOOD
I've lost a lot of weight.
I've been able to stop taking a handful of medications every morning.
I've met a lot of great people with this blog.
I've been a successful role model and cheerleader for my husband's weight-loss efforts.
I've gathered a host of healthy recipes that we enjoy.

THE BAD
I haven't lost consistently and I haven't met my goals.
I stray from my plan or stretch the boundaries to the point that I don't lose.

THE UGLY
Given a choice, I would be an undisciplined Goober who uses food for
entertainment, comfort, and medication.

I'm not mad at myself...I'm just coming to grips with the fact that the part of me that wants to eat too much, too often is never going to wither up and die...it is here to stay. Left unchecked, my natural instincts are to gravitate toward the same foods that led me to this place.

I can fight the idea as much as I want, but, even after all this time, I find myself on a sliding scale between being either On or Off-PLAN. Some days I'm at one end or the other...most days I'm somewhere in between. But I'm still thinking in terms of On or Off. That way of thinking is part of what I hoped to change, but I'm beginning to believe that will never happen for me.

I can run up the number of days that I do well with THE PLAN by removing temptation from my environment. Sometimes I can even win a face-to-face stare down with temptation. But I have a really hard time with is the idea that I am still tempted at all.

I had really hoped that at some point a conversion would take place and temptation would be a thing of the past.

I wanted my heart to keep pace with my intellect in this pursuit.

It's frustrating to know that discipline and preparation are always going to be required. I was really still hoping for EASY!!!

It's disappointing to realize that there will be no surrender by my opponent...this battle for weight control will have to be fought the rest of my life.

I've armed myself well with great weapons...journaling, blogging, good recipes; I have a great battle plan mapped out for me; and I have a host of great soldiers fighting the battle with me; but the battle will still have to be waged in spite of all that. Darn! Darn! Darn!

History teaches us that the greatest victories sometimes come on the heels of the greatest defeats. Maybe, if I keep up the good fight, I'll someday plant my flag on the top of the hill!

Well, enough reflection! I have some heavy marching to do today, fellow soldiers!


Saturday, April 5, 2008

IT TAKES A VILLAGE

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Any fan of Agatha Christie's Miss Marple will recognize the above as a sketch of St. Mary Mead, the village in which Miss Marple resided. If it weren't for all the murders which took place there, it would be a lovely place to live. And except for the occasional omelet made with poison mushrooms or arsenic in the soup, I can imagine it would be a healthy environment.

If I were to live in an ideal setting for good health, I would imagine it to be similar to this little country village where the market is within walking distance and sells produce grown locally. In fact, nearly everything is within walking distance...the post office, the yarn shop, the butcher, and the pharmacist.

And the fresh air you would get standing by the gate visiting with friends!

Then, the occasional visit over a pot of tea in the local tea room...watch out for the cakes, though!

Gardening was a universal pastime in the village...great exercise.

Meals were light...three-minute eggs and toast with a little marmalade for breakfast, sandwiches made from tinned meat for lunch, and dinners which featured broth, poached fish, boiled potatoes and peas. There was the occasional cup of hot cocoa at bedtime...watch out for the sleeping powders that have been added!

If I could find the right village and the taxes were better than here in Marion County, I'm ready to move!


Friday, April 4, 2008

OH MY!!!

Naughty but funny!

This site is having a contest where people combine vintage ad illustrations with modern day products. This one is for Weight Watchers!

HEY, FELLOW BLOGGERS!!!

Are your ears burning?

They're talking about us today!!!

Thursday, April 3, 2008

TAGGED

I've been tagged by Lora to sum up my life in six words.

I've decided that I can do that best by listing the six primary relationships that have made up my life:

DAUGHTER
SISTER
WIFE
MOTHER
GRANDMOTHER
NURSE
nursing
The person I am now is a product of the interaction that I have had with others while performing those roles.


Write your own six word memoir· Post it on your blog and include a visual illustration if you want· Link to the person that tagged you in your post, and to the original post if possible so we can track it as it travels across the blogosphere· Tag at least five more blogs with links; and· Leave a comment on the tagged blogs with an invitation to play. That simple!
Consider yourself tagged if you're reading this and pass it on!

If you have no will to change it, you have no right to criticize it. ~Author Unknown

I was reading an article by Glamour Magazine contributor, Pamela Redmond Satran, yesterday about how to take steps to stop obsessing about your weight. Some of her ideas were to volunteer at a soup kitchen so you could get a different perspective on food, or, to volunteer at a hospital where you could get a different perspective on the kinds of life and death problems other people are facing.

She also suggested getting rid of diet books, any magazine that promotes an unrealistic ideal of what a woman should look like, and bathroom scales.

Or to plant a garden since it would provide both exercise and a supply of healthy food.

The point she made that intrigued me the most was this one:

"If your weight was perfect, what other problems would you still have? Make a list and set about solving those."
I was stumped for an answer!

Except for the minor problems of daily life like deciding which insurance company to use or whether cable is better than satellite, or just how much taxes can go up in our county before there is a mass exodus to another one, I don't have a lot of problems. And the ones I do run into are usually short-lived or resolve themselves given a little time.

I guess I would have to admit that, except for overweight and its effects on my health, I really don't have a list of problems to solve...I'm pretty lucky...and I celebrate that every day!

So, that leads me to her final point:
"If your weight is truly your biggest problem, then you need to finally and truly commit to the kind of total life change that helps you take off the weight---and be willing to embrace the pain that goes along with that."

Ouch! The hardest thing of all to do...just doing it!!!

Tuesday, April 1, 2008

The rung of a ladder was never meant to rest upon, but only to hold a man's foot long enough to enable him to put the other somewhat higher.

...Thomas Henry Huxley...

my birdhouse stepladder
We all have things we miss as we age and put on a few pounds.

Age has robbed me of my once perfect vision and I really miss that. Bifocals are evil! And vanity isn't the issue...I kinda like the way I look in my stylish frames...lol! No, it is the fact that reading is not the pleasure it once was when I could enjoy reading a book no matter where I was...lying in bed before going to sleep, in dim corners of the room, in moving vehicles. Now I have to be sitting straight up in a chair with no-nonsense lighting over my shoulder. Boring!

And, no, I am not a candidate for Lasik surgery...I've checked.

And one of the things I miss the most due to the ravages of aging and added girth? Standing on a ladder!

I used to be able to stand on the top of a ladder...totally ignoring the WARNING labels about not doing it!...and paint my own rooms. I loved painting and I was good at it...a natural. I could manipulate a paint brush and make it glide along that line between the wall and the ceiling perfectly. Ah, the sheer pleasure of doing it myself!

The first time I fell from the second rung of a stepladder while doing a little painting, I was stunned! I had no warning and found myself on the floor wondering what on Earth had caused the accident. And then it happened again. I finally woke up to the fact that two things had happened. One...my knees weren't as flexible as they had been when I was younger. I was having to maneuver down steps one at a time and in a careful manner unlike the easy way I had taken them in my younger days. I tended to want to hold on to something as I stepped down. I no longer felt sure-footed and confident.

And, two...my added weight had changed my center of gravity. There was more of me to balance on the rung of the ladder and my belly was keeping me from hugging the ladder as I once had.

It finally became obvious to me that my days of climbing on a ladder were over and I literally sat and cried when that day arrived. It is the same feeling a senior has when they can't drive a car any longer and have to rely on someone else to take them places. Or when they are afraid to shower when in the house alone for fear of falling and being there for awhile before someone comes to rescue them. For me, it meant that I would have to depend on someone else to perform a task that I preferred doing myself and I hated it! I still do.

Losing weight has given me back some of my maneuvering skills. I can reach behind things, back into corners, and bend over to clean baseboards. I can reach up, over, and to the side. But I can't get back on the ladder.

I'm not one to let things like this keep me down, though. I still read books...it just takes me longer to get through one. But I have also started downloading audio books from the library and listening to them as I work in the kitchen or do other household tasks.

And I've hired someone to do some of the painting I used to do. I have to leave the room while it's being done, though, to prevent myself from pointing out crooked lines or spots that need a touch-up. Or worse yet, watching someone tape off areas that I used to paint without a second thought. Oh, it's hard being the master and having to settle for the efforts of an amateur!

And here's a shout-out to Jared Fogle who climbed the ladder of success by eating Subway sandwiches and losing a ton of weight 10 years ago!!!